I've always held a respect for families that chose to adopt. And I've always viewed families with any child with special needs as blessed. Chosen, if you will. I never for a moment thought we would find ourselves in the adoption process, for two children, from a foreign country, both of which have "special needs." Yet here we are.
As a young woman I wanted a large family, 5 children to be exact. Three boys, two girls, evenly spaced about 2-3 years apart. Maybe you can relate to having it all figured out. And then LIFE took different directions than I envisioned in my naive youth.